There’s a point in the season where everything starts to speed up. It’s subtle at first. A few warmer days, as if the soil is begging for plants. And then all at once, it feels like the window is finally open. Not wide or forever, just long enough that you can feel it.

And with it comes this kind of energy that’s hard to name. Part excitement, part pressure, part hope.

Because this is the stretch where things finally go in the ground. The plans you’ve been obsessing over, the starts you’ve been tending, the ideas that have been sitting just on the edge of becoming something real. This is when you finally get to move them into the soil :)

And this is also the point where it starts to feel more real. It’s something that’s been coming up in the garden circles too, not as a topic exactly, but in the way people talk once they settle in. What they’re putting in the ground, what they’re unsure about, what they’re hoping will take.

Because alongside the excitement is something else, uncertainty. The weather can still turn (Mother Nature does as she pleases), the timing might be off, the soil might not be quite what you thought it was.

Things might take, or they might not. You don’t really know yet.

You’re working with a mix of instinct and hope, trying to catch the right moment without being able to control it. And it creates this quiet pressure. Not panic, not urgency in the loud sense, just a steady awareness that this matters. All the while knowing that what you do right now shapes the season.

It’s a strange place to be. You’re asked to move forward before you have proof. To plant before you know. To commit to something that’s still uncertain.

And I think this is one of the most honest parts of gardening. Not when everything is growing, and not when everything has settled, but right here. Where you’re making decisions in real time, working with what you have, trying to read the conditions and respond, even though you can’t fully see how it’s going to play out.

It’s not that different from other parts of life. That same feeling of thinking this might be the moment, but not being entirely sure. And still choosing to move.

If you’re in that space right now, this is exactly the kind of thing that opens up when people sit down together.

If you’ve been wanting to come to a garden circle, there are still a few spots open for the upcoming gatherings:

May Gatherings

Tuesday, May 5 — Boise: Hyde Perk Coffee House • 1:30 PM
This circle is full.

Tuesday, May 12 — Nampa: Franz Witte Garden Center • 1:30 PM
This circle is full.

Tuesday, May 19 — Boise: Hyde Perk Coffee House • 1:30 PM
A few spots are available.
👉 Reserve your place

Tuesday, May 26 — Nampa: Franz Witte Garden Center • 1:30 PM
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Ashley

What does your garden teach you?

I didn’t know what people would say. I expected a range of answers. Maybe something about growth, or creativity, or even failure. But almost every woman, in her own way, said the same thing: Patience.

It landed differently than I expected. Not as a nice idea, not as something poetic, but as something very real, and very present. Because this week, patience wasn’t optional.

All week, I’ve been waiting to plant. Back in February, I started perennial flowers. I’ve been tending them for months; adjusting light, watering carefully, hardening them off, moving them outside.

They’re ready, I’m ready. And still, they just sat outside, waiting. Because the weather turned. Rain, cold, even a little bit of snow here in Emmett. The kind of weather that keeps you from doing the exact thing you’ve been working toward for months.

Every day, I kept looking out, thinking, maybe today. And every day, the garden answered back the same way: Not yet.

Sitting in that circle, hearing everyone say “patience,” I realized something: We don’t usually choose patience, we get placed into it.

You can do everything right in a garden; start seeds on time: care for them well, plan your beds and still, you don’t get to decide when things move forward.

The conditions have to be right.

The soil has to be ready and the timing has to line up and if you push it? You usually find out later that the garden was right.

This is the part no one really talks about, the in-between. The stretch where everything is prepared, but nothing is happening yet. It can feel like you’re behind. But when you actually sit with other gardeners and hear what’s really going on, you realize:

Everyone is in some version of this; seeds that didn’t take, plants that are stalled, plans that are waiting on weather. No one’s garden is moving in a straight line.

And somehow, talking to others about their gardens changes things. Patience stops feeling like something you’re failing at and starts feeling like part of the process.

This week, instead of planting, I waited.

I walked the garden without changing anything, I checked the soil without trying to fix it and let things stay unfinished.

Certainly not because I wanted to but because there wasn’t another option; and maybe that’s what the garden teaches best.

Not how to grow faster or how to get it right but how to stay with something when it’s not moving yet.

The weather will shift, the ground will warm, the planting will happen-it always does.

If this is where you are right now

If your garden feels like it’s paused…if you’re waiting on timing, or weather, or the next step…you’re not off track.

This is part of it.

Come sit with us

The Garden Circles are where these kinds of conversations happen. Not as advice or instruction, but as a place to actually say what’s going on and hear that you’re not the only one in it.

If that’s something you’ve been looking for, you’re welcome to join us.

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• Weekly garden reflections

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The question was simple: What does your garden teach you?

This week, the answer was patience, not the kind you choose…the kind you learn by living it.

-Ashley

I had every intention of planting these this weekend.

Instead, it rained and rained, and everything turned to mud. So they’re still sitting here, waiting.

But I keep coming out to check on them anyway. The leaves look greener, fuller. Like they’re ready, even if the ground isn’t quite there yet.

There’s something about this part of the season I love so much; not everything is on schedule, but everything is still moving.

This week’s Garden Circle is Tuesday at 1:30 in Emmett. It’s a small group, just a handful of people, sitting together and talking about what’s actually happening in our gardens right now. What’s growing, what’s not, and what we’re trying next.

No experience needed. No pressure to know anything.

If you’ve been thinking about coming, this is a good week to try it.

A simple question to carry with you:
What’s waiting in your garden right now?

You’re always welcome to come once and see if it feels like a fit. Learn more about the garden circle here.

Reserve Your Seat

-Ashley

Every garden year starts quietly.

Not with harvests or overflowing beds, but with the small decisions that shape the entire season. What to plant. Where to plant it. What to simplify. What to let go of.

This year I’m building my kitchen garden around a few crops I know I love to grow and actually use in the kitchen. Instead of trying to grow everything, I’m focusing on what works well in my climate and what I know I will harvest often.

Right now in my garden in Idaho, the season is just beginning.

The soil is still cold in the mornings, but the planning stage is fully underway. Seed trays are starting to appear on the counter. Beds are being cleared. Irrigation lines are getting checked. The garden is waking up again.

This year I’m keeping my growing plan simple.

I’m focusing on a handful of reliable crops:

• cilantro & basil
• corn, beans & squash
• lettuce & arugula
• tomatoes & peppers
• lavender & sunflowers
• seasonal flowers like marigolds and zinnias

These are the plants I return to every year because they are productive, useful, and satisfying to grow.

Some of these will go into my kitchen garden. Some will become plant starts I’ll sell from a small farm stand.

But mostly they are being grown because I love the rhythm of tending them.

Seed & Season will follow this garden through the entire year. I’ll share what I’m planting, what’s working, what fails, and how to build a garden that actually fits into everyday life.

Not a perfect garden. A real one.

If you’re here because you’ve been thinking about growing food, this is the perfect moment to begin. Early spring is when the garden starts taking shape.

The first seeds are small.

But they change everything.

Let’s grow something this year,

Ashley

Spring is arriving.

And with it comes a feeling I wait for every year.

Hope.

Last year I didn’t garden at all. By the time early spring arrived, I was eight months pregnant and trying to decide if I could still manage a garden. Part of me wanted to try anyway. I imagined keeping things small, maybe a few beds, maybe a couple of tomatoes. But deep down I knew it probably wasn’t realistic.

My instincts were right.

Within weeks I was holding a newborn and completely underwater. Those early months of motherhood are their own season, and gardening simply didn’t fit into that chapter.

This year feels completely different.

For a million reasons.

This morning I sat outside at our old rustic picnic table with a stack of seed packets in front of me. My dog Stanley climbed right up onto the tabletop and started pacing around like he always does when he wants to be close to me. Apparently sitting next to me on the bench is not enough. If I’m at the table, he must also be at the table.

The air smells like spring. And sitting there, I felt that familiar internal shift that happens every year when the growing season begins.

Starting seeds is my favorite part of the entire gardening process. More than harvesting. More than planning beds. Even more than those slow summer evenings watering the garden.

Because this moment holds the most possibility.

A tiny seed in your hand is pure optimism. You press it into the soil knowing it might become something. Or it might not. Every year the garden surprises you. Some things thrive. Some things struggle. Some things fail completely.

And that uncertainty is part of what makes it so interesting.

Even after five seasons of gardening here, I still don’t really know what will happen. The weather will do what it wants. Seeds will behave in ways you don’t expect. Every year the garden teaches something new.

This season is already starting a little differently than usual.

Normally during the winter I spend weeks with seed catalogs spread across the table. I circle varieties. I imagine what each bed will look like. I plan the entire season before anything ever touches soil.

That didn’t happen this year.

Life with a ten-month-old baby boy has a way of rearranging your priorities. Between naps, teething, crawling, and the constant motion of having a baby in the house, those slow winter planning sessions never really materialized.

Instead, I stopped by the small greenhouse shop in town and picked out whatever seeds caught my eye. Some are local brands. Some aren’t. A few varieties I recognize. Others I know nothing about beyond what the packet says.

And that’s fine.

Gardening doesn’t always happen in perfectly planned seasons. Sometimes you work with the time and energy you have.

Right now that energy is enough to sit outside, breathe in the warm air, and finally plant my tomatoes.

I kept putting it off all weekend. Not because I didn’t want to do it, but because wrangling a ten-month-old all day is exhausting in a way that’s hard to explain until you experience it. By the end of the day the seed trays were still sitting on the table outside and I was still sitting on the couch.

But this morning there was a small window of quiet.

A little sun. A little space.

Enough time to press seeds into soil and begin the season.

And somewhere in the middle of that moment, another idea started forming.

Maybe this is the year I finally do the farm stand.

I only decided that two days ago, which feels very appropriate for how this entire season seems to be unfolding.

A little loose.

A little unplanned.

A little chaotic.

But full of possibility.

Ashley